The Rhythm of Everything

Ever been intrigued by the mystic flow of life? Many a times, there arises situation where you are forced to blend with the likes and dislikes of the people around you or by what the surroundings offer you. Deep-minded people have wider dimensions of thoughts and most of the these get sculpt into their reality. These people do not like to just blend with it. They rarely are followers, or perhaps, never a follower! They like being their own boss and create their own reality. To me, this is something I truly believe in, no matter what others think of it. I don’t choose to be a follower as I believe that every person is made of a unique flavor that adds zest to the world we live in. This is an aspect that brings us all to live, love and laugh together. It is just absurd to try to get along with everyone’s idea of life. At this point, we come to the liberty of choices.

My friends sometimes go crazy when I do not follow their advice. But it is not always true. I listen, pause and reflect on how it can be enforced in my life. And I only pursue things that makes sense to my brain because it is wired differently from others. And partly, it is also due to the fact that I like being the only liable person for my actions. These realisations did not occur to me until I gave away my power to people whom I tried to coordinate with. This process took a really long time and I am at the peak of happiness while writing this.

Love is not the only substance that binds you to someone as there are so many dimensions to it. As I grow older, I have come to a point where I conclude that I can never be selfish with the ones I truly love. But this way, I tend to be vulnerable and transparent as well. So, when the circumstances ask me to leave someone for their well-being and diminish the agony to myself and them, I choose to let go. You can still love and appreciate their existence in your life but in a more ingenious way. Setting some boundaries does help. Because it is simply hard to unlove any person and stop caring, and it is not imperative. This is also something I have learnt from my sibling. She is an exceptional personality I have ever known in my life. We are still learning and growing together rationally. Until date, she is one person who has truly uncovered me inside out under the shadow of her attained skills in psycology. Yet, there are mysteries to this mind which I do not wish to unleash to the world.

So, it is clearly evident that you cannot completely align with every single person you encounter. And nothing can ever be perfect as well. The way, I and you perceive perfection in something may seem like mere imperfection to the third person. It is always wise to not judge too much on how another mind functions. If different minds are able to comprehend each other and respect the differences, the rhythm of life will be melodious and if acceptance is not a choice, one can always choose to leave where their actuality is not acknowledged. So no matter where the life flows mystically, you can make a choice to stay authentic and true to yourself. And the courage to do so is a super power that decides your rhythm of everything. This perception of mine may be wrong to some, but I would like to appreciate the good and bad in every scenario and agree to disagree.

But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” – Samuel 16:7